Do you ever worry
about what effect the culture is having on your children? The culture with all
its smart-alecky joking, cynical jibes, dumbing-down, crazy over-the-top
zaniness? Do you worry that your child is one day going to turn away from
all you have taught them and worked so hard to instill in them and adopt that way of acting?
In a world where
permissive behavior is more the norm than not and tolerance is the word of the
day, being conservative, or even moderate, living moral, striving to be
Christ-like, means you look rather odd and you are pretty much marching out of
step by social rules. In response, some parents have opted out of the job
of responsibly raising their children. It appears they are merely living life
alongside their kids without giving any real guidance, training or discipline.
If
you are one of those parents who still believe that children need to behave
respectfully, use good manners, and treat others with kindness, I encourage you
to keep on keeping on. You have a guidebook ready. It’s probably sitting somewhere
close to you right now. God’s
Word is powerful and the real deal. Take strength from it. Get direction from
it. “My word that goes out from my mouth - will not return to me empty, but will accomplish
what I desire and achieve the purpose for which I sent it.”(Isaiah 10:11)
When
it seems everyone around you are losing their heads, keep yours in the game.
Read your Bible and discover encouragement, wise guidance, and a God who is on
your side. It is a
must-read for parents who want to raise respectful, morally responsible,
spiritually healthy children. Moms,
“gird your loins” or put on your armor, as in Ephesians 6.
“Be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take
your stand against the devil’s schemes.” (v.11) Remember, as mamas, our battle
is not against the culture and the crazy folks who believe its lies. “Our struggle
is against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms." (v. 12)
So let’s be ready to stand our ground! “And after you have done everything, to stand firm.” (v.
14)
With this as a battle plan, you will be ready, Mom, “to take up the shield of
faith, with
which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the
Spirit, which
is the word of God.” (v. 17)
Let’s
be ready for this battle for the hearts, minds and souls of our children. Moms,
let’s fight back against a culture that would love for us to give up and accept
that there is nothing we as Christians can do to stop it. Let’s do everything
we can to lead the next generation into a life of grace and godly living.
And then... Are you ready for
this one? “You will go out in joy and be
led forth in peace; the
mountains and hills will burst into
song before you, and all the trees of the field will clap their
hands.” (Isaiah 55:12)
On some days, I could use a little applause. Even from a tree.